What if i’m not good at this…?

Last week, 25 folks gathered around the table for dinner and conversation. Our conversation starters included questions  like, “Who influences the way you show up in the world?” and “What experiences have you had recently that gave you hope?” Our facilitators included a prominent nuclear physicist, a retired diversity, equity, and inclusion professional, and a couple of ministers. Our goal was to practice some of the skills we will be utilizing with Periodic Tables.

One of my (David) chief motivations in all this from the start is a recognition of how starved I can be at times for deep community connection, and how much help I need in getting there. I have moderated enough table conversations in my time to realize that it isn’t really my strong suit. Still, I know I need people in my life to help steer meaningful conversation, folks who can gently redirect me, or probe a little deeper when maybe I am settling for something at the surface level.

We’re all on the same path, and each of bring something unique into every community setting. It may seem ironic for a person who is less skilled at guiding a conversation to actually be leading a conversation project. The reality is that wherever we are the journey, our goal is to remain infinitely curious about each other and be open to growth. When we couple our desire to know others, not simply know ‘about’ them with thoughtful conversation starters and trained moderators, magical things happen in our relationships. I know because much of that magic has happened in my own life in those places. That’s why I am passionate about this work.

If you would like to receive training to help lead a conversation, those opportunities are on their way. If you’re like me and appreciate people with that skill set and are willing to exercise curiosity, then sign up for one of our coming conversations. Truth is, we don’t have to be good talkers or good conversation leaders — we just need the desire to grow and learn about each other, opportunities to listen and ask questions from the heart. If we have that, the conversation will take care of itself!

We will see you at the table! Stay curious!

Blessings,

David